Helping Families Discover Answers to Life's Mysteries through Nature
The Dragonfly Door Description:
Stories that build on the natural science of a dragonfly's metamorphosis can sometimes help parents explain life and death to a child. Let this award-winning book, The Dragonfly Door, help children identify the beauty and hope in all cycles of life as they follow two insects, Lea and Nym, and the struggles Nym endures when her friend disappears from their underwater home in the marsh. The Dragonfly Door is a tender story about loss and change, written to help parents and adults explain death and the natural cycles of life. Several schools and communities have adapted The Dragonfly Door into theatrical performances to help children cope with the death of their classmates. Learn how communities adapted this book into theatrical performances for grieving children.
For Counselors and Teachers:
- Adults who work with children find this book helpful because it encourages some children to talk about their unique feelings associated with a death, loss, or change.
- Children may identify with Nym, who grieves the loss of her friend, and find it easier to express their feelings about a loss after hearing the story.
- Some teachers follow-up with a discussion either one-on-one, in-class, or through a writing assignment.
- For those interested in nature, this book includes the real life cycle of the dragonfly at the end.
- Download lesson plans for this book.
- Through a vision or dream, Nym learns that Lea has transformed into a beautiful dragonfly above the marsh.
- Someday, Nym will see her friend again in this new world.
- Parents and grandparents often interpret this as a metaphor for heaven or as an analogy to life after death.
- In this way, the core message of the story becomes one of hope for those who grieve the loss of someone.
- See a child psychologist's comments to parents about this book.
The Dragonfly Door may serve many purposes, such as comforting a grieving child or providing facts about dragonflies. Beautifully illustrated by Barbara L. Gibson, the book is cherished by parents, grandparents and teachers.
While Nym slept, she heard Lea's voice saying, "Follow me, Nym. I'm going to show you where I am." "Will I see you again?" Nym asked. "Only when it's time for you to die too," Lea replied. "You won't see me in the marsh ever again. But let me show you what I will look like the next time you see me. Here, close your eyes." Nym closed her eyes. "Now look at me," Lea said. Nym opened her eyes and saw ...
The Dragonfly Door
Review of The Dragonfly Secret:
"This is an outstanding read. Well done in every area, story, and illustrations....Truly a precious gift to be given to any who are hurting from the loss of a loved one."
-- The Midwest Book Review
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Lea explored other parts of the garden. She looked under a picnic table and peeked inside the gardener's tool shed. Suddenly, Lea felt a strange stillness. The birds and insects were quiet. Someone nearby was crying. Lea flew cautiously toward the sound. A woman sat on a wooden bench in the corner of the garden. Lea could see her face wet with tears. The light around the woman seemed dim. For a moment, Lea's wings felt very heavy. She, too, felt sad. This must be what the woman feels, she thought. The woman continued to cry. Uncertain of what to do, Lea made her way to the branch of a nearby tree. She looked at the woman. Something caught her attention. Beside the woman on the bench was ...
The Dragonfly Secret